For every person to be successful, not only hard work but also equal support is very essential. Why do you think support is essential? Who is the best supporter in life?
Many people after becoming successful acknowledge their supporters and many others. No one tells you who is the best supporter in life. Parents are the best supporters in life.
There is no other support like parents do. They are the best people in the world who can understand very easily the feelings of their child and help them achieve their greatest effort with ease. That’s the power of parental support.
Friends also do support there is no doubt in that. Friends do help at every moment of life when you don’t feel to share your problems to your parents. Friends do stand with you when no one else does. Those are true friends.
But if the support from parents is lagged, then the pain and loss can never be fulfilled by anyone else. They are the ultimate source of success and stand with you all the time. Some times parents do not get the time to be with their kid.
This point happens when they get involved into their work or think too much about their child and when not able to achieve their dream, they start to feel low about their own child. I say never loose your hope from your child.
Parents should be the pillar for their child’s dreams and not weight. Even if they loose or fail at times, encourage them to take up new challenges and learn from previous one. Never make them feel low by your actions or words.
The words spoken by anyone else won’t hurt much as said by parents. Parents do dream too much about their child as they sacrifice their dreams and put them on their children’s head from the very beginning. It’s a good thing if you keep them focused at one point. But also let them enjoy their own time too.
It’s the job of parents to support them at every success and failure. Enjoy their success with joy and failure with new challenges. That’s the only way you can keep your childs mind focused. If parents start feeling low because of their child’s failure, it will become a very big burden in their mind.
Being strict is good so that they don’t get involved with the wrong people or habit, but it doesn’t mean you start restricting them from everything. Keep them free also keep them safe. That should be the mentality of parents. Do spend quality time with them and not only get involved into your own work.
Success or failure it all depends on the way parents take in and help back their children. Parents should never let their child feel low. It may hurt you now but your child will have to face it every time for the rest of his/ her life.
Your one small support can change their way of taking failures and moving forward. Take a step now to change the mentality of your child. Support them even at their failure. World is versatile and there are many options. Take those options which will lead you to your ultimate goal.
One can reach their main goal through many routes. Don’t restrict them to one. Also don’t give many options. Options should always be available in parents mind when children get stuck. Break down the main goal into smaller goals so that it feels easy for your child.
Be friendly and be supportive. Time to take a step now or never.
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